7 habits of people who attract positive vibes

There's just some people who are always a vibe. They have good energy, positive attitudes and they always make you feel good. Do you think it's a coincidence? Most likely, not! In a world where trolling, envy and negativity are the norm, it takes tons of work to attract positive energy - but first you have to embody it!

1. They begin their day with motivation

Positive people know that when you begin your day with positive thoughts, you draw positive things to you - almost like practicing gratitude. People who attract positive vibes know how to wake up with a positive attitude, which means being grateful for the the things in their life that are good instead of dwelling on what is going wrong in their life. Your thoughts are very powerful, and if you struggle with thinking positive because of past trauma, life's circumstances and etc., prayer helps. Think on things that are lovely, good and pure. My favorite passage to read in the morning is Psalms 91 and 23. Trust me, sis. It works.

2.They don't need too much attention and or validation

Have you ever met someone who whenever you're with them, everything is always about them? They need attention, approval and validation all the time. Pretty draining, right? People who attract positivity don't need to constantly talk, and they are at peace with silence. They are comfortable in their own skin and are okay if all the attention isn't on them. People who are comfortable with themselves are self-aware and listen to others. Those characteristics are attractive and tend to attract the positive vibes of the bunch.

3. They know how to change scenes when feeling uncomfortable

People who are in tune with their emotions are able to do what they need to in order to make themselves feel better. They are in tune with their bodies and know when they've reached their limits. You rarely see them breaking down to you, lashing out on you or spreading negative energy. You will find that they know how to change scenes, such as going for coffee, taking a walk, engaging in prayer, calling for support, dancing or just doing what allows them to heal. Also, it's hard to attract positive energy when you're tensed and filled with tension. A person who attracts good vibes knows how to suffuse their lives with joy and happiness.

4. They recognize the power of their words

People who attract positive vibes speak life into others. They put positivity in the atmosphere. Most importantly, they show compassion to themselves. It's important to remember that putting others down isn't uplifting. It just makes them feel bad about themselves. Even if they are just a "realist or an honest person," they pay attention to how they make others feel with their words. If you give people a negative experience, they're less likely to return.

5. They see the cup half-full

People who are the perfect vibe tend no to fret because they are hopeful and look for the positive outcome in a difficult situation. Believe it or not, 9 times out of 10, the outcome we worry about usually doesn't come true. We spend all of our time worrying, and it helps absolutely nothing. The positive person is aware of this, and they try to look for the good in every situation. If only 5 people came to their birthday party, and they invited 10, they would know how to be happy and enjoy the people who are actually there to support them. The positive person would be happy alone and be a vibe all by themselves.

6.They avoid toxic positivity

People who attract positive energy are aware that other's emotions are reality, and they allow others to feel how they want to without judgement. They aren't scared of sadness, anger or negative emotions. Instead, they support others and allow others to be themselves. They are emotionally intelligent, able to read others and know how to respond accordingly. Hence, they are able to understand and offer realistic advice.

7. They know how to clear their space of negative energy

Whether you cleanse and declutter your home, spray it with blessed oil, or bless it with prayer, a person who is a vibe knows how to rid negative energy. The moment that it is in their presence, they avoid it, and they don't allow others to drain them. They will do anything possible to clear the air - fight spiritual warfare with prayer and scripture, use smudging oils, holy oil or water, cleanse their mind, soul and their bodies.

People who attract good energy know that good energy is also taking accountability for your actions, practicing self-awareness, and most of all making positivity a lifestyle. It may seem that some people are more of a natural at it, but to maintain positive vibes, you have to do the work. Stay positive loves!!

Written by: Taylor Bennett

Author of Discover Beauty 4 Ashes